Why is she so fat? Why aren’t I as pretty as her? You know?!
I’m prettier and skinnier than her and she is going into a field that makes no
money, he’s an idiot and he is probably now dating a slut! I’ve heard these
judgments all day long and I feel so bad that I haven’t said anything to try
and pick people up. Playing on a girl’s softball team we know pretty much
everything about each others lives. A girl on the team is experiencing a
breakup where the boy left her for another girl at his college. Instead of
trying to talk to her (now ex) boyfriend she sits there completely bashing this
girl that he knows nothing about. Calling her all kinds of names and judging
her, but she knows nothing about her. Maybe she is a nice girl, who just got
caught in the wrong situation at the wrong time. Girls compare each other to
other girls all the time. Instead of so many judgmental goals I think people
should focus on developmental goals. If girls wanted to compare themselves to
others, they should make a change to improve themselves in the process. If I
were to call a girl skinny, then I should be trying to improve myself by
working out or trying to get into better shape. If a girl were smarter than
you, try to improve yourself by reading more books or to challenge your mind
and expand your horizons more. Think
about how improved the world would be if judgment wasn’t the key focus, but
developing yourself into a better person was.
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